Anyway, this is another mindfucking session, as usual. And as usual, I wasn't able to get to sleep last night cos' of that 5 hours nap I took earlier in the afternoon. And as usual, I decided to while my time away, blog-surfing till 1.30am. So as I was blog-surfing, I came across a local blog which was dedicated mainly, but not solely, to the blogger's (let's call him C, shall we) sexcapades. The point I am trying to make is that, the link of this sex-blog was on a completely innocent-looking blogsite of another local blogger, and that just threw me off.

I disapprove of casual sex, and even more so, frown upon an 'open' relationship. Be it a FB, fling or Significant Other, as long as it involves physical intimacy, I still believed in monogamy. Anyway, C is an attached guy who loves the female anatomy very much. Yet, not only does he have regular sexual intercourse with his girlfriend, he also has countless physically intimate relationships with most of his female friends. C's main blog has got explicit details 'bout his romps and carries a link to his sub-blog, which is set up purely to showcase his talent in writing erotic literature about his sexual fantasies.

After reading both of C's blogs, I am greatly troubled, disillusioned and disheartened. He claims to love his girlfriend very much and that she is able to give him what he needed in bed. Yet he has no qualms about jumping into bed with another woman, a different one, every other week. So what's the world coming to? Am I the only one who finds it baffling comprehending the mindsets of 'youngsters' nowadays?

Well yar, this is not the first time I've came by a sex blog, local or not. So why do I choose to speak up only now? Because I've had had enough. Yes, the dick belongs to him, he is free to do whatever he likes. No, the size of his dick seems bigger than the size of his conscience. Yes, it's his blog and he can write whatever he wants. No, he still has got to fulfil something called social responsibility. Yes, if I don't like what I'm reading, bugga off. No, he could set a password and make his blog a private one, giving out the password only to others who share his interest. Yes, it's good not to limit your choices while you're still young. No, you needn't go so far as to go on a sex rampage. Yes, it's ok to blog bout how you and your wife/husband/girlfriend/boyfriend had sex today. No, it's not ok to blog bout how you had sex with your wife/husband AND your girlfriend/boyfriend today.

What are we teaching the younger generation here?! That it is ok to fuck around because it's your birthright? That it is ok for your boyfriend/girlfriend to fuck around behind your back because what you don't know, won't kill you? That monogamy is a thing of the past and polygamy is the right way to live an exciting life because you are only young once? That your worth is proven only by the number of trophies you've bagged aka the number of women you've shagged?

Singapore is still an asian country. We are still asians. We have many esteemed moral values and traditions we pride ourselves on. So why allow the continued erosion of our valuable morals?! We are always complaining how the behaviourism of youngsters today are worse than that of yesteryears. So why don't we start being good role models now for them to look up to? Spare a thought for the much younger and naive generation. Assuming that on the average, a 10 year old is computer-illiterate enough to know how to get online and surf the Internet. How many of you out there are willing to take the chance of having your kids stumble across such pictures and websites like C's blogs, and grow up having the notion that sex is no longer an act of sacredness and physical intimacy shared between two lovebirds anymore?!

After all these babbling, I am NOT trying to convince all of you to abstain from sexual activities. Neither am I trying to act all saintly. What I am trying to say here is that, try your darnest to be with only one sex partner at a time and at least have the decency to be ashamed that you aren't able to remain faithful to a partner at any one time. Plus, there's nothing to be proud of, not cool at all, to be attached and shagging someone else who is attached too.

There was once when I thought and acted like C, except minus the sex part. It was Bro who kinda knocked some sense into me. I am extremely thankful for that. I am also very thankful to my mother for incalcating, instilling and drilling in me the good o' Chinese values. And I am proud to stand firm in my principles and beliefs.