This feisty lil Bitch has horns!

Monday, January 23, 2006

I lack tact.

I lack sensitivity.

I lack foresight.

The fact that this girl, Charlette, has said this and that , struck a chord in me, deeply.

Below I have included some excerpts from the links which I'm referring to.

"Friends. Makes me wonder why should I bother. I make an effort to keep in touch with people coz I dun wanna lose them as friends. An occassional meet up every/other month to catch up on each other's lives. Yet no one is co-operating. When I ask to meet this week, they say they are busy. When I ask in advance, they say cannot confirm. Can't you just set that evening free then? I am not asking for a whole day, I am only asking for a dinner. Now most of you should know I am as free as a bird. I don't really wanna arrange gatherings coz no one co-operates. But since I am so free, I decided to be nice. Yet no one appreciates. Can you blardie tell me your availability?! And remember our date to meet?! They tell me they didn't know it's confirmed or they forgot and have another appointment. THANKS LOR! Or I get some other silly reasons as to why people cannot make it. I don't know why I'm so bothered. Maybe my friends don't really care. Why should I? I guess it just boils down to one word, Priority, and I am not high up on that list of theirs. I shall not bother & not initiate meetings anymore. And I shall see a year down the road, how many friends I have left."

"I deceive myself that my friends are all busy with spring cleaning and CNY shopping...(and not having fun w/o me). It's so true. The older you get, the less friends you have. Good old friends drift away. New ones are mere acquaintances. I look like I have a lot of friends but it's all a farce. A farce. Love and friendship are actually very alike. There must be constant communication, sharing of weal and woe, sharing of troubles and laughter, knowing each other's lives, knowing the intimate details, being emotionally connected. Why is it that some of my friends now feel like strangers? Aaargh. If they don't bother, why should I?!"

Finally, I have gotten the closure I needed. And dare I say I've understood and seen clearly through you for who and what you are?

Yes.

WildChild @ 12:53 am | comment link here

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desires for 2007

+ a good man to settle down with
+ a GPA score of higher than 4.1
+ a ton of good crime fiction books
+ a few more pounds to be shed
+ to look and feel good about myself
*****Wishlist*****

to be done soon

+ lose more weight
+ ~~get a new pair of spectacles~~
+ shop for new shoes
+ a pedicure & manicure session
+ an eyebrow trimming session
+ ~~a hair makeover~~
+ ~~shop for CNY clothes~~
+ shop for bra and panties

movies watchlist 2007

+ ~~Curse of The Golden Flower~~
+ ~~Pan's Labyrinth~~
+ One Last Dance
+ Zodiac
+ Perfume: The Story of a Murderer
+ Hannibal Rising
+ The Number 23
+ Spider-Man 3
+ 28 Weeks Later
+ Ocean's Thirteen
+ Nancy Drew: The Mystery in
Hollywood Hills
+ ~~Harry Potter & The Order of Phoenix~~

my babes

[*] Charlette
[*] Dee
[*] Denise
[*] Gladys
[*] Imms
[*] Jo
[*] Lil Sis
[*] Linyan
[*] Lynn
[*] Munster
[*] Rozie

my hunks

[*] Ahxing
[*] Amos
[*] Brudda
[*] Dan
[*] Darthsid
[*] DK
[*] Dude
[*] Hao
[*] John